Relationships
Impressing Her Mum On Mothers Day.
Psssst Guys…Every mother has X-ray vision when it comes to how you treat her daughter, no matter the age and how long you’ve been together. Remember, her mother knows what type of bloke you are on how you treat her daughter.
So if you catch up with her mum this mothers day, be authentic and try not to be too over the top. On the other hand, don’t be to lifeless and inattentive, because either way she’ll be aware of it.
Besides getting the Mum of your partner a gift, why not also try to impress her quietly in other ways?
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What If Im Never In The Mood For Sex?
What happens if you’re in a relationship and you have stopped having sex as you are rarely in the mood and when it does happen its a non affair or it turns into a quickie and it’s mainly for him?
Advice from the show ‘How to Have Sex After Marriage’ suggest that you need to activate your sexual side of the brain again and its super easy for only a maximum of 10 minutes. Especially woman this is important as we tend to get turned on physiologically first where men are more visual.
HOW: Sit somewhere quiet and think any sexy thoughts;
Ladies it might be as simple as a guys that looked hot today walking down the street; eye contact you caught off a total stranger; or a sexy couple snogging on the train?
Men it might be the scent of a females perfume you smelt that day; a sensual voice you recall hearing; a beautiful pair of legs you spotted at lunch.
Some couples have had their sexual feelings lay dormant for so long they need to start with the above process to re-activate that part of the brain to start firing off those neurones again. No need to feel guilty of what your thoughts are once you have activated that part of the brain your partner will be more attractive to you again and you’ll be in the mood.
WHY: The last thing you want to have in a relationship is lack of sex. Sex is one of the reasons you and your partner became a couple. Sex helps bond couples emotionally and be more open in their communications in other areas of their relationship. Sex also increases the longevity of a relationship and stops affairs with one partner not feeling appreciated or sexually attractive.
Three Kisses That Every Woman Loves
Did you know that there are three kisses in particular that most woman love that can turn her from 0 to 100 hot to trot in minutes!
Guys remember these three easy steps to start the motors running.
Start with the Angel Kiss:
The angle kiss is a closed mouth kiss, it’s a dry kiss that is super soft. Best to do it gentle around the sides of her eyes, above her eyebrow and along her forehead. A couple at the sides of her mouth follow on with the whisper kiss.
Whisper Kiss is a slightly open mouth kiss closing the lips gently on her soft skin along the sides of her neck and is the perfect time to whisper softly something nice in her ear like “your beautiful” a few more around her neck and follow into the french kiss.
French Kiss is a succulent open mouth to mouth kiss. Not only are saliva fluids exchanged but at the same time testosterone is passed to the female and this actually turns the female on unconsciously. The tongue can softly explore hers but not engorge her mouth.
Hold the back of her neck and start moving the kiss towards the side of her neck and combining the whisper kiss but this time a little more pressure and wetter. Listen for the gasp for air from her and you know chemistry is ON!
Every Kiss In The Book
Angel Kiss
This is a sweet, comforting kiss.
Gently and ever so lightly kiss your partner either on the eye lid or right next to the eyes.
Cheek Kiss
A friendly, “I really like you” kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner’s shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.
Butterfly Kiss
The Perfect Relationship….well for me it is!
A good friend of mine asked me what do you think is the secret in having a happy 10 year relationship that you guys have? Well besides being blown away with a left of field question, I was also flattered. She was right though; I do have a beautiful marriage with my husband and thought ok I will do my very best in sharing what makes it work for us.
So I went on to answer her question best way I could.
Tip #1
Always treat each other with the same grace and patience that you had when you first started dating. My husband told me a great example of patience in a relationship. He said “If we were dating and were in the car about to leave to go out for lunch and you said you ‘forgot your jacket’ I would stop the car and tell you “no problem run up and grab it as you might get cold”. As years go by and couples start to get comfortable with each other, patience and willingness to impress each other has a tendency to die as we have now achieved our goal (having a relationship) . Fast track a few years ahead and if the exact same situation happened again with you forgetting your jacket I could respond and say “ now we’re going to be late”, or “we dont have time to get it- you’ll be fine it’s not that cold” the reaction may be completely different.
The moral to the story is treat each other the way you would when you were first dating. Treat them the same as the person you would like to impress, treat each other with the same manners, the same patience and the same optimistic view of a situation.
Tip #2
Give up dead routines
After the initial excitement of being together we all tend to fall into some routines in our relationships. One being that we think we know what the other one is thinking or feeling, some also feel that it doesn’t matter if they come home late, don’t make the effort to look as good or they start to take up new hobbies or spend more time with their friends. Many couples break down due to looking for instant gratification or fulfillment from outside sources as the relationship has become stale and boring. In time the relationship will start to fade away. How do you ensure it doesn’t happen to you?
Advice :
Snap out of ruts; dedicate a night to plan some exciting things to do that are both inexpensive and some that may require a little future saving.
“New stimulus- new spark”. Why do so many couples love going to a hotel…..its a new stimuli…its a guaranteed stamp that there will be some sparks flying while they’re there.
It doesn’t have to a hotel, it could be as simple as taking a walk to breath in the fresh air one week night after dinner instead of the routine of sitting on the couch being glued to the TV.
Try Something New
Many Relationships can quietly go stale in the bedroom; so to avoid that try looking it with new eyes.
A lot of what’s appealing about connecting with people online or randomly with perfect strangers is the allure of something unknown or fresh. Try something you’ve never done before, or something you’ve been curious about or even something you’ve never even heard of before now!
Explore new erogenous zones on each other, be open and willing. By seeing each other through a fresh perspective or exploring something new together, you can definitely add excitement to your relationship.
Women and Dating Online
One thing women do when dating online, is they get so caught up and act as if it’s truly dating when the fact is…it’s not really dating. Women can forget this and it can cause great stress if they don’t hear back from the person online again. People forget you need to have a engaging communication for a relationship to really build and truly grow. This is best achieved through using all your five senses and to do this you’ll need to be face to face. The best way to think about online dating, is to think about it as an online meeting.
Try these Rules of the road for Successful Online Dating:
Guys Guide To Buying Lingerie
Don’t look like a fool when it comes to buying Her Lingerie here’s an easy 3 step guide to follow:
1) Know Her Size: Did you know that every woman has an underwear draw and it’s normally the top draw, as its easy access for items she uses every day. Guys, get her size right, if it’s too small she will put it on and feel fat. If it’s too big she’ll be disappointed that you went to the effort but now she has to let you down by telling you it doesn’t fit (she might even feel you think she’s fat because of picking too big a size…and that’s the last thing you’ll want!).
By you knowing her size YOU’RE THE MAN and that scores big time for you taking notice! The size is always found on the back strap hook area, it’s a number and a letter e.g. 12C . The number 12 is the back size and C is the cup size of breast. Did you know there is a general rule of thumb “If you don’t have the exact size, a woman can go up a back size and down a cup size or vice versa down a back size and up a cup size and it generally can fit”. So this little tip helps you to increase your chance of getting it right!
2) Put Your Fantasies Away: If you’re buying a present for her make sure it is for her not for you to fulfil a sexual fantasy or score for the night.
Get the Personality right: Is she’s a flirty gal/girl who loves feminine silks and lace with pretty colours to make her feel like a classy woman or is she a funky comfort queen who loves the cotton full bums or boy-shorts with the mix and match style bras? There’s also the wild child who likes to tie you up and if that’s the case feel free to grab the latex crutchless thong and gimp mask…but definitely not for the Heidi’s of the group she’ll run the other way.
5 Low Cost Ideas To Wow Them This Valentine’s Day ?
Here are 5 quick steps to wow them on valentines day.
1) Wake up in the morning with a red ribbon tied around your neck like you are the gift and have a love note written especially for them.
2) Start the day by inviting your partner in with you for a shower together – while washing them: Ladies-Tell your man how much you admire, approve of, and appreciate him. Men- tell her the depth of your devotion, respect for your relationship with her, and understanding of her needs.
3) Warm up a body lotion or massage oil in the microwave and give the present of touch with a long massage with quiet music in the background.
4) Put a red rose in their car along with a hand written invitation. Tell them to Dress in something really special tonight. Create the atmosphere by lighting some candles and play their favourite music. Pamper them completely with the food they love, and the rest is limited only by your imagination!