Relationships
Women and Dating Online
One thing women forget when dating online is they get so caught up and act as if it’s truly dating when the fact is its not really dating. Women can forget this and it can cause great stress if they don’t hear back from the person online again. People forget for relationships to really build you need to have an engaging relationship where it allows it to truly grow and that is through using all your five senses and that is only going to be face to face. Best way to think about online dating is think about it as online meeting.
Try these Rules of the road for online dating:
Guys Guide To Buying Lingerie
Don’t look like a fool when it comes to buying Her Lingerie here’s an easy 3 step guide to follow:
1) Know Her Size: Did you know that every woman has an underwear draw and it’s normally the top draw, as its easy access for items she uses every day. Guys, get her size right, if it’s too small she will put it on and feel fat. If it’s too big she’ll be disappointed that you went to the effort but now she has to let you down by telling you it doesn’t fit (she might even feel you think she’s fat because of picking too big a size…and that’s the last thing you’ll want!).
By you knowing her size YOU’RE THE MAN and that scores big time for you taking notice! The size is always found on the back strap hook area, it’s a number and a letter e.g. 12C . The number 12 is the back size and C is the cup size of breast. Did you know there is a general rule of thumb “If you don’t have the exact size, a woman can go up a back size and down a cup size or vice versa down a back size and up a cup size and it generally can fit”. So this little tip helps you to increase your chance of getting it right!
2) Put Your Fantasies Away: If you’re buying a present for her make sure it is for her not for you to fulfil a sexual fantasy or score for the night.
Get the Personality right: Is she’s a flirty gal/girl who loves feminine silks and lace with pretty colours to make her feel like a classy woman or is she a funky comfort queen who loves the cotton full bums or boy-shorts with the mix and match style bras? There’s also the wild child who likes to tie you up and if that’s the case feel free to grab the latex crutchless thong and gimp mask…but definitely not for the Heidi’s of the group she’ll run the other way.
5 Low Cost Ideas To Wow Them This Valentine’s Day ?
Here are 5 quick steps to wow them on valentines day.
1) Wake up in the morning with a red ribbon tied around your neck like you are the gift and have a love note written especially for them.
2) Start the day by inviting your partner in with you for a shower together – while washing them: Ladies-Tell your man how much you admire, approve of, and appreciate him. Men- tell her the depth of your devotion, respect for your relationship with her, and understanding of her needs.
3) Warm up a body lotion or massage oil in the microwave and give the present of touch with a long massage with quiet music in the background.
4) Put a red rose in their car along with a hand written invitation. Tell them to Dress in something really special tonight. Create the atmosphere by lighting some candles and play their favourite music. Pamper them completely with the food they love, and the rest is limited only by your imagination!
Joke- Gravy Serving Spoon
Brian Hester invited his mother over for dinner. During the course of the meal, Brian’s mother couldn’t help but keep noticing how beautiful Brian’s roommate, Stephanie, was.
Mrs. Hester had long been suspicious of a relationship between Brian and Stephanie, and this had only made her more curious.
Over the course of the evening, while watching the two react, Mrs. Hester started to wonder if there was more between Brian and Stephanie than met the eye.
Reading his mom’s thoughts, Brian volunteered, “I know what you must be thinking, but I assure you Stephanie and I are just roommates.”
About a week later, Stephanie came to Brian saying, “Ever since your mother came to dinner, I’ve been unable to find the beautiful silver gravy ladle. You don’t suppose she took it, do you?”
Intimacy- How it improves your SEX Life?
Intimacy is the fibre in our brain that binds us to the people we love, and is built on time, investment, and honest communication. In a healthy long-term relationship, intimacy increases with time and many men and women are fortunate to have a lover who is also their best friend. Sex and romance are crucial for long-term intimacy. The stronger the sexual connection, the stronger the emotional intimacy will be. It is important to nurture and feed your relationship both emotionally and sexually.
The sex and intimacy cycle
Sex and intimacy are closely linked in our brains, but men and women respond differently to intimacy. Many men can’t feel intimate with their partner unless their sex life is satisfying, but many women can’t enjoy sex without intimacy. For men, sex feeds intimacy, and for women, intimacy feeds sex. These sexual differences can be disruptive to your relationship, so it is important to nourish your sex life with intimacy.
The Point System
The point system:
At an unconscious level, both genders run their own little points system; but what if the points system of a woman, is completely different to that of the male? How on earth are you meant to win and enjoy the game if you don’t know each other’s rules?
Men love feeling like they can make their partner happy and the woman might not realise he’s making the effort. Dr John Grey (Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus) says “Many men think they can’t seem to keep their partners happy”. When couples feel like they can’t consistently stay happy, they become insecure about the relationship and begin questioning it?
Here is the rule book:
NINE WORDS WOMEN USE:
NINE WORDS WOMEN USE :
(1) Fine :
Example: “fine then”
This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you
need to shut up.
(2) Five Minutes:
If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is
only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to
watch the game before helping around the house.
(3) Nothing:
Example “no, nothing is wrong”
This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be
on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.
(4) Go Ahead:
This is a dare, not permission. Don’t Do It!
Finding Mr Right?
It’s amazing to witness the variety of ways women can create the hope that Mr Right exists.
I’m sure at one point in our lives we’ve all been one of these girls I mention below, some of us could be a combination of them.
Are you single? What do you do to keep your hopes high in finding Mr Right? Or what have you done previously in the hope of finding the right man…and there is the one thing most women have in common… HOPE. That one word helps us keep the female spirits strong and alive.
The List Lady
10 Secrets To Keeping A Happy Marriage:
1. The number one reason guys say they get a divorce is “I can’t do anything right in the relationship” (quoted from Dr John Gray-relationship expert ‘Men are from Mars Women are from Venus’). To make her happy……he needs to look at the little things to help relieve her everyday stress; not the big things like supplying a home to live in or having a good steady job. These things are great to have and crucial but it’s the little things that she’s complaining about and that usually make the relationship breakdown. …..it’s the not offering to cook or wash up, putting clothes away after being washed, not picking up your dirty clothes and putting them in laundry. It’s the little things that build up her frustration, not the big things!
2. To help reduce stress, is to both understand the dynamics of males & females and how they juggle their full time job, and then for many woman it’s like coming home to then start the second shift….if one partner is doing more than the other, that’s when resentment starts to set in.
Are you and your partner bored?
Are you and your partner bored? When was the last time you did something for the first time?
Do you ever experience boredom on weekends which then turns into the occasional argument with your partner because you have nothing exciting to do when you have time togther?
Well you’re not along. Apparently from a recent survey on Childless Aussie couples a staggering 87% said they often get bored and run out of things to do on their weekends off together.