Relationships
Finding Mr Right?
It’s amazing to witness the variety of ways women can create the hope that Mr Right exists.
I’m sure at one point in our lives we’ve all been one of these girls I mention below, some of us could be a combination of them.
Are you single? What do you do to keep your hopes high in finding Mr Right? Or what have you done previously in the hope of finding the right man…and there is the one thing most women have in common… HOPE. That one word helps us keep the female spirits strong and alive.
The List Lady
10 Secrets To Keeping A Happy Marriage:
1. The number one reason guys say they get a divorce is “I can’t do anything right in the relationship” (quoted from Dr John Gray-relationship expert ‘Men are from Mars Women are from Venus’). To make her happy……he needs to look at the little things to help relieve her everyday stress; not the big things like supplying a home to live in or having a good steady job. These things are great to have and crucial but it’s the little things that she’s complaining about and that usually make the relationship breakdown. …..it’s the not offering to cook or wash up, putting clothes away after being washed, not picking up your dirty clothes and putting them in laundry. It’s the little things that build up her frustration, not the big things!
2. To help reduce stress, is to both understand the dynamics of males & females and how they juggle their full time job, and then for many woman it’s like coming home to then start the second shift….if one partner is doing more than the other, that’s when resentment starts to set in.
Are you and your partner bored?
Are you and your partner bored? When was the last time you did something for the first time?
Do you ever experience boredom on weekends which then turns into the occasional argument with your partner because you have nothing exciting to do when you have time togther?
Well you’re not along. Apparently from a recent survey on Childless Aussie couples a staggering 87% said they often get bored and run out of things to do on their weekends off together.
How To Make Her Birthday One To Remember!
How To Make Her Birthday One To Remember!
With some woman it’s not so much the gift that steals their heart but more about the time & effort that has gone into the gift. Here are two ideas to make her day one to remember:
Idea no# 1: Send her on a Shopping hunt.
Take her to shopping mall and make her sit down for a coffee whilst you say your going to duck off and will send her a text when you’re ready.
The structure of the event looks like this-
1. Head to her favourite shops and buy something.
2. Ask the sales assistant at the counter if you can leave it here for your girlfriend/partner to pick it up.
3. Tell them its her birthday and you’re going to send her on a shopping hunting adventure.
4. Ensure she can exchange it then and there if it isn’t correct fit/colour etc.
5. Send her a cheeky text message “ Happy Birthday sweetie- your mission for the Next 2hrs is to find me. I have left traces at particular shops you need to collect along the way- go into the shop and tell the shop assistant who you are and ask if ‘Brad has left anything for you?’. If for any reason you feel the need to try on a clue feel free. Stand by for more notice amd your next clue.
6. Send new text message with a shop & instructions- go to Sportsgirl and ask for Amy at the counter. Stand by for next sms.
7. Obviously this depends on how much cash you have and want to blow. You can send her to cheaper shops that are great bang for buck like Diva, Myer, ICE or to somewhat more higher ticket price like country road, Armani exchange.
8. A great tip to ensure you get the service and perhaps a helping hand is tell the assistant first what you’re doing what the service pour on out!! Who knows…..it will probably make their day fun too and turn around and say to the other shop assistants “oh I wish my man did that for me!”
Idea no#2: Mission Impossible:
Similar to the above event but send her to different locations leaving clues:
Guaranteed Success For Aussie Males This Valentine’s Day
If you think flowers and chocolates are the way to go this Valentine’s Day, think again. Research conducted by Australia’s largest online gift shop for women, Presents For Her, show that 93% of Australian women would prefer lingerie and perfume over flowers and chocolates for this Valentine’s Day.
Famed for knowing ‘what women want’, this unique website offers more than 1300 gifts options for men – To make it super-easy all are categorised by age, price, best sellers and special gift packs to make gift giving easy this Valentine’s day. Designed by Annette Lackovic, a specialist in human thought behaviour, Presents For Her is the result of extensive study into male psychology and their systematic behavioural patterns.
“Men usually shop with one thing on their mind - getting out of there in the fastest way possible, as the typical male will have to buy at least 4 times a year - Birthdays, Anniversary’s, Xmas and Valentine’s Day and tend to struggle with or run out of ideas, so we’ve emulated this behaviour by creating an online space where they can log-on, select who or what they’re shopping for by relationship, age, price, best sellers or gift packs and in less than six minutes they’ve achieved their mission,” Presents For Her Director, Annette Lackovic said.
Presents For Her also conducts monthly polling with Australian women aged 18-70 to keep male shoppers up-to-trade/up-to-date with the latest trends around what women want.
“All our gifts are based on research from real women. By understanding what exactly women are looking for, we not only make gift buying for males fast – but it’s also guaranteed to please,” says Annette.
More good news for guys; latest research indicates that this Valentine’s Day women want to feel sexy – which means you can both enjoy the array of corset’s , short dresses and lingerie (Sexy everyday or for that special occasion) that Presents For Her has on offer.
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Presents For Her have created four special Valentine’s Day gift-packs to suit every women:
- ‘Princess Pack’ – ONLY $99 (save $124) which includes 2 gorgeous Bra and brief sets and a flirty short pink Dress all by Leg Avenue designs
- ‘Ms Tame’- ONLY $129 ( Save $85) which includes Designer perfume gift pack (choice of Elizabeth Arden, Calvin Klein or Hugo Boss) + a Guerlain Make up Kit
- ‘Ms Conservative’ –Only $149 (save $93) which includes a stunning sweeping long gown from Leg Avenue + a basket of pampering body and bath treats.
- ‘Ms Diamonds and Pearls- Only $125 ( $25) which includes Swarovski crystal flower & pearl necklace with a matching bracelet By Libetre – “The flowers that will keep forever from Valentines day!”.
Further demonstrating a deep understanding of the Aussie male, Presents For Her offers a speedy pick-up and delivery service for the ‘Mr Last Minute Man’ which runs right up until the 14th of February.
Ladies: How to Keep the Boomchickawawa in a relationship
‘Ladies’ How to Keep the Boomchickawawa in a relationship.
When was the last time you did something raunchy for your relationship?
You know to spice things up…?
Did you know ladies your man is a visual creature? Meaning men get turned on visually first more than the likes of us females who tend to be more mental first?
When we first start dating, us girls go to all extremes to make sure we look great visually for our new lover. We make such an effort from our hair to perfect make up, we buy new clothes, and some of us even go on diets and start exercising as we starts to feel more confident, with the thought that there is someone out there who thinks we are great! We shave our legs or wax our P#*&Y ! and in turn it lifts our self confidence and we start to get a strut in our walk and a large smile on our dial. We radiate happiness and sex appeal!
Then the relationship starts getting intimate and us girls ALWAYS insure when we get dressed for that day or night to meet him. We put on a sexier set of underwear than what we’d wear for work, just in case something happens! ….Underwear or lingerie that normally gives us that extra cleavage or has that nice sheer material where you can see some nipple or skin. No matter what it is, we always ensure it’s matching and that we feel sexy in it as this is how the female unconsciously prepares herself for some hot action.
How to Take Time Out of That Busy Schedule for You and Your Partner
Maybe there’s nothing more you’d like to do in life than spend some quality time with your partner. Sure, it sounds easy enough, but for many people, it can be problematic just to find a few spare moments in the day. If both you and your partner are career-oriented people, then it can be difficult to find the appropriate amount of time to spend on each other. However, this is no excuse. That time together is still of vital importance to your relationship, and you need to MAKE the time for it. Besides, if you’re feeling run down and stressed out at work, there’s nothing more rejuvenating than a weekend alone with the one you love!
So, the next time you’re trying to think of special gifts for her, consider the gift of time. This isn’t to say that you have to skimp on the chocolates and wine, but at the same time, having a mind for more unique gifts for her can be a big help. For instance, what if those chocolates and wine were accompanied by a romantic night out on the town? The gift of a sexy new dress can be quite appealing, but what good is it really unless she has somewhere to show it off? Try coupling that new dress with reservations at one of her favorite restaurants. The point is to give not just gifts, but unique experiences that the two of you can remember.
How to Steam Up the Bedroom
Reading the title of this article, “How to Steam Up the Bedroom”, might have you saying, “Nonsense! Like I need help in that department!” However, stop and think for a moment: no matter how hot the action in your bedroom is, why not do everything you can to make it even hotter? Whether you’re having trouble getting things started or already consider yourself a master of the boudoir, it can’t hurt to try a few things to take it up a few more levels. One of the best ways to do this is with the careful selection of some perfect gifts for her.
Generally speaking (and we’ve found this to be true for most women), what women want is to feel sexy and wanted. What better way to accomplish this and give her a great gift at the same time than with an elegant piece of lingerie? Too many people feel as if lingerie is gimmicky or “not for them”. Simply put, they’re missing out. The world of lingerie is quite expansive, and there’s something there for everyone. From the absolute daring pieces for the boldest of women to elegant and stylish, but still sexy, pieces for the more reserved woman, lingerie can be just the thing to put her in a bedroom frame of mind.
How to Get Away From It All Without Really Getting Away
When you’re trying to think of great gift ideas for her, one of the first things likely to come to mind is a romantic trip away just for the two of you. Unfortunately, this isn’t always possible. While getting away for a while would be a great way to spend some quality time together, it’s just not always feasible to do so. Maybe you’re both career-oriented people and you can’t take the necessary time away from your job. Maybe you just simply can’t afford a long vacation. Whatever the case, the bottom line is that the reason you want to get away is to get closer to each other. The good news is you don’t HAVE to get away to enjoy that. It’s possible to “get away from it all” without really getting away at all. If, in the end, you end up closer to each other, isn’t that the whole point?
For many people, present ideas are difficult to come by. This is because they get locked into one idea and refuse to entertain alternatives. However, if you really want to be able to get closer to your significant other (in all the ways that matter), then you’re going to need to be flexible (in all the ways that matter)!
Tips for Strengthening That Relationship
The desire to strengthen a relationship is incredibly common. Maybe you’ve got a new relationship in your life and you’ll do anything to make sure that it becomes “the one” that sticks around for good. Or maybe you’re trying to put the spark back in an older relationship. Whatever the case, if you’re trying to improve your relationship with that special woman in your life, you’re going to need to show your thoughtfulness. That means finding the absolute best gifts for her that you can.
What’s so special about a gift? It’s not just the gift itself, of course, but rather the thought behind it. When you give the perfect gift to someone, you’re showing not only that you value them, but that you know them well enough to make such an excellent pick, and most of all, that you’re thoughtful enough to put in the time to know just what to select for her. In this sense, giving the ultimate gift is something that can be done at any time in your relationship, and it’s always bound to pay off, usually in more ways than one.