Ladies: How to Keep the Boomchickawawa in a relationship

'Ladies' How to Keep the Boomchickawawa in a relationship.

When was the last time you did something raunchy for your relationship?

You know to spice things up...?

Did you know ladies your man is a visual creature? Meaning men get turned on visually first more than the likes of us females who tend to be more mental first?

When we first start dating, us girls go to all extremes to  make sure we look great visually for our new lover. We make such an effort from our hair to perfect make up, we buy new clothes, and some of us even go on diets and start exercising as we starts to feel more confident, with the thought that there is someone out there who thinks we are great! We shave our legs or wax our P#*&Y ! and in turn it lifts our self confidence and we start to get a strut in our walk and a large smile on our dial. We radiate happiness and sex appeal!

Then the relationship starts getting intimate and us girls ALWAYS insure when we get dressed for that day or night to meet him. We put on a sexier set of  underwear than what we'd wear for work, just in case something happens! ....Underwear or lingerie that normally gives us that extra cleavage or has that nice sheer material where you can see some nipple or skin. No matter what it is, we always ensure it's matching and that we feel sexy in it as this is how the female unconsciously prepares herself for some hot action.

Some of us invest so much money into our lingerie, knowing how good we look & feel in it, we want to keep it on during the course of action……..

we just flick things across or lift up pieces,moving it into places so it remains functional for the act but we continue to look amazing as well!

But ...........how often do you go to those great lengths now?

One, two or even five years down the track....

It's like we can get so comfortable with our partners seeing how we look when we wake up in the morning, or how tired we feel after an exhausting week at work, we tend to lose the effort in creating the boomchickawoowa moments. We're happy to go a week without shaving or some of us even longer! Its like we now only shave for special occasions or if someone going to see our hairy legs. The declining effort of finding that new piece of lingerie or ensuring we have that sexy matching set on days are far and few between. We believe 'he now loves me for me' as that is what he always says!

Yes he does but hey I'm sure he just as much loves looking at you feeling sexy & confident too, strutting your stuff  in the bedroom or around the house! And I'm sure you love that feeling too?....right? Its just getting motivated to do it again.

Over 86% of relationships lose their spark as years go by as the lack of effort & motivation to keep it alive.

To keep the boomchickawoowa try asking yourself some questions to keep proactive in your relationship sex life:

• When was the last time I answered the door greeting him in some sexy lingerie?
• When was the last time I got dressed thinking 'I better put something sexy on in case I get lucky today/tonight?'
• When was the last time I seduced him with some lingerie and gave him a massage with some sweet smelling body products?
• When was the last time I went out of my way to look fabulous for me and my partner to reap the rewards too?

If we continually ask ourselves a question to keep the spice alive, the amazing thing that will happen will be that the effort then gets reciprocated back. The law of Reciprocity is when you give to another, the receiver will feel indebted at an unconscious level to return the act of a similar favour. In simple "You get what you give."

Just remember the act must be mutually rewarding. A successful relationship requires that both parties benefit from the investment in the relationship. Girls get him to read last month's newsletter edition on how men can keep the boomchickawawa in a relationship. Perhaps print it out and leave it as reading material on the coffee table or on his toilet reading material.

Remember, variety IS the spice of life!!!

Empowering relationships everywhere,

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